This is not a questionnaire. This is a mirror—one that reflects not just who you are, but who you are becoming. Take your time. There are no wrong answers, only revelations.
Your Body in Space
Do you ever lie on the floor, or on a mat on the floor?
Yes, regularly
Sometimes
Never
Do you feel comfortable in gender-segregated spaces?
How do you sit in chairs?
Upright
Slouched
Cross-legged
One leg tucked
Do you gesture when you speak?
Constantly
Sometimes
Rarely
Are you aware of your body in space, or do you bump into things?
Very aware
Somewhat aware
I bump into things
Do you hug people when greeting them?
Yes, often
Depends on the person
Rarely or never
How close do you stand to others in conversation?
Quite close
Moderate distance
I prefer space
How You Adorn Yourself
Do you wear sunglasses? What color are the lenses?
Yes, dark lenses
Yes, colored lenses
Yes, clear/light
No
Do you prefer brown or black leather?
Brown
Black
Neither/Other
Do you wear a hat?
Yes, regularly
Sometimes
No
Do you like colorful socks?
Yes, I love them
Neutral/plain only
No, subdued only
Do you wear jewelry other than e.g. a wedding ring?
Do you wear a watch? What style?
Yes, luxury/traditional
Yes, smartwatch
Yes, casual
No watch
What do you carry?
Briefcase
Backpack
Messenger bag
Nothing/pockets only
Your Aspirations BE HONEST
Would you rather seem flashy or competent?
What do you want most?
Choose what calls to you most deeply
Attention
Recognition
Money
Status
Sex
Do you prefer to blend in or stand out?
Blend in
Stand out
Depends on context
Would you rather be remembered or respected?
Remembered
Respected
Both equally
Do you want to intimidate or charm?
Are you trying to look younger or more established?
Younger
More established
Neither/my age
Comfort & Sensation
Are you sensitive to textures?
Very sensitive
Somewhat
Not particularly
Do you prioritize comfort or appearance?
Comfort
Appearance
Balance of both
Do you remove your jacket when sitting?
Do you like feeling "held" by clothing or do you prefer looseness?
Held/fitted
Loose
Depends on the piece
Do you adjust your clothing frequently throughout the day?
Yes, often
Sometimes
Rarely
Who You Are
Do you see yourself as traditional or avant-garde?
Traditional
Avant-garde
A mix
Are you risk-averse or risk-seeking?
Risk-averse
Risk-seeking
Calculated risks
Do you care what your parents would think of your appearance?
Do you dress for yourself or for others?
Would you describe yourself as an insider or an outsider?
Insider
Outsider
Depends on context
Are you trying to communicate membership in a specific group?
Yes
No
Maybe unconsciously
Your Daily Rituals
Do you empty your pockets at night or leave things in them?
Empty them
Leave things in
Depends
Do you eat lunch at your desk?
Yes, usually
Sometimes
No, I eat elsewhere
Do you bike or engage in physical activity in work clothes?
How often do you actually need pockets vs. want them?
I really need them
I like having them
Rarely use them
Do you button your jackets or tend to leave them undone?
Button them
Leave undone
Depends
The Language of Color
When you think of "power," what color comes to mind?
What color makes you feel most like yourself?
What colors do you avoid and why?
What color were you wearing the last time you felt truly confident or "in your element"?
The Deeper Questions
If you could only own one suit for the rest of your life, would you be devastated or relieved?
Devastated
Neutral
Relieved
Have you ever been told you "clean up nice"? How did that make you feel?
Do you enjoy shopping for clothes or is it a chore?
I enjoy it
It's fine
It's a chore
Have you ever dressed specifically to make someone else uncomfortable?
Yes
Maybe unconsciously
No
Would you wear something you loved if someone else mocked it?
Yes, absolutely
Depends who mocked it
Probably not
Did you have a favorite sports team when you were growing up? A favorite pro wrestler? Did it mean a lot to you?